Woman tells real story of being a young mother and it goes viral

To have borne a child of your own at an early age is perhaps one of the unintended decisions that exposes one to a lot of criticisms. Adults, especially people around will find it demeaning for a young girl to be impregnated. Others can’t help but judge her from the flaws she has committed and convinced that she is fated to reap the struggles of life out of the activities that’s presumed to have caused her present miseries. In short, she reaps what she sows.

But if many critics considered it as bad karma, fruit of one’s flirtation or accident, for most noble moms, untimely having a baby is the sweetest accident that has ever happened to them.

True to her, Shayn Mangilin is just actually one of the brave souls who tells the world that she is a young mother and happy to be so.

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Shayn honestly narrated her routine as a mother. Being a young mom is no joke, she said. And for this note, she is convinced that experienced people are indeed right. Being a mom, she learned to forget herself. From having to wear a make up every day, it turns on waking up early because as a mom, she has to attend to her baby’s needs.

There’s more of her “hugot” messages pertaining to her mommy duties and how profound she has expressed her being a young mom can be read though her post. Get the feels of it below:

“Hindi biro maging isang batang ina, tama nga sila. Pati sarili mo makakalimutan mo na. Make up araw araw napalitan ng wake up sa madaling araw. Mawalan na ako ng oras sa pagpapaganda, wag lang akong mawalan ng oras sa aking pamilya. Gising magdamag, naglalakihang mga eyebag, palaging puyat, may panyo lagi sa balikat, masakit na braso dahil palaging may buhat at ipinaghehele, hindi makalabas ng bahay dahil oras oras nagpapadede, marami na talagang hindi pwede dahil marami ng bagay na sayo nakadepende. Madaling nagigising kapag umiiyak ang supling, pag ang anak ay sinusumpong minsan malilipasan ka na ng gutom. Ganyan talaga ang isang ina, kung mag-alaga sobra sobra. Minsan nga nakakalimutan mo na magsuot ng bra. Halos lahat naman eh diba? Ganun talaga. Minsan kapag naliligo tinitignan ang katawan, puro kamot sa iba’t-ibang parte ng katawan, naiwang taba sa tiyan, talagang ganyan. Pati sarili mo napapabayaan. Yung anak mo, pwede mo ba siyang titigan? Kausapin mo siya lagi kahit hindi ka niya naiintindihan. Pinaghirapan mo siya ng siyam na buwan. Marami pa kayong pagdadaanan. Kahit ano man ang iyong nararamdaman. Kahit husgahan ka pa ng karamihan. Isa lang ang masasabi ko diyan. Wag niyo akong husgahan sa konti niyong nalalaman. Oo kilala niyo ako sa pangalan pero hindi niyo alam ang hirap kong pinagdaanan para lang maging the best na ilaw ng tahanan. Kahit ilang beses niyo pa akong husgahan. Ako yung ilaw na hindi mapupundi kahit kailan 

Oo maaga akong nagkaanak, pero hindi porket maagang nabuntis sinira na ang buhay. Hindi porket maagang nabuntis wala ng pangarap sa buhay. Bawal man magresign sa pinasok kong hanap buhay.Pagusapan man nila ang aking talambuhay, hindi nila mababago ang pagmamahal ko sa pamilya ko na panghabangbuhay. Minsan lang tayo mabuhay kaya wag nating pagtuunan ng pansin ang mga taong walang kabuhay buhay at magfocus tayo sa mga mahal natin sa buhay.

Masama man ang tingin sa akin ng iba. Magiging mabuti pa din akong ina para sa aking pamilya

PS: Wag niyo akong tularan sa pagkakaroon ng anak sa murang edad. Tularan niyo ako sa pagharap sa responsibilidad at pagalaga sa blessing na ibinigay ni Papa God 😊
(ctto) kl dacanay.”

It’s worth to stress that in the end, she ask readers not to emulate her by getting pregnant early but but with her dedication to faithfully perform her responsibilities. Yes, no one can turn back things especially wrong decisions made, but its in taking ownership of your mistakes and being accountable for its results that makes one stand up and a get a life ahead, again.

In this FB post, she gained attention and respect on the online community. More power to her and her family.

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